None of us wants to live a life filled with pain, but logically, we know that probably some pain will come. How much pain? To what extent? Those are haunting questions. If we realize that we do have some control over pain, that may make the experience feel less scary. I speak of these things because I lived for 15 years in extreme pain (from Fibromyalgia, Chronic Fatigue Syndrome and other symptoms of Lupus, Lyme, Arthritis and autoimmune diseases). I’m well now and counsel people everyday on how to heal from devastating health problems.
1. Pain– constant, terrifying pain– can feel like you’re living inside the impenetrable walls of hell on earth. “Don’t let that be the case.”
You might think that statement sounds flippant; not so. Much of the reality of pain is manifested in your thoughts about the sensation. Pain is not just present in the body; it is a perception processed by the body/mind. Except for the originating pain signal in your stubbed toe or broken finger, the perception of pain is all in the mind.
Note: All sensations (good or bad) are stored as bio-electric memories in every cell of the body. Your body is your mind. Check out Candace Pert’s work, Molecules of Emotion or Cinda Crawford’s new release From the Floor Looking Up which is referenced at the website of the listing below.
Pain in and of itself is not dangerous. It may feel threatening, but to be in a state of pain is not dangerous (unless the body/mind really believes that it will die). Pain is the body’s signal indicating, “something is wrong.” The body responds to the perceived pain/ discomfort stimulus by getting your attention. Pain either indicates that something is slightly amiss (a strong hint) or that “you” may be in real danger (Stop– I’m screaming at you! Pay attention to me!). The worst situation occurs when pain totally incapacitates you and you literally cannot function.
2. Don’t give in to hysteria, irrational behavior or a depressed spirit. Rebelling against pain by letting your emotions slide can only increase the intensity of the pain. Having a healthy attitude sets you up to better receive the special gift that “pain” can bring.
Fighting any condition does not mean it will end. Fighting pain increases its intensity and makes you feel worse. If you “accept” the pain and know that there will be times when it’s better, and possibly a time when it will go away, you will be able to relax into it somewhat and that step down in emotions will help to lessen your pain. Don’t be hysterical or desperate. Try to find the lesson in why you’re having the pain and, ultimately, a gift of knowledge and spirit will come. It may not be immediate, but eventually you will arrive at a new awareness. Simply– lose the fear and expect the blessing.
3. Decide to live in “peace” in whatever state you find yourself. Living in peace with pain takes away its power. You will be able to exert more control over how it affects your life.
Few of us are monks or claim kin to the lineage of Sister Teresa, but many times “saintly”, more spirit-connected people have the right idea of how to approach life. If we simplify our lives and live in peace, there are great lessons to be learned. But us being happy “where” we are and living in pain? Know that we can experience this overwhelmingly expansive and important concept of human nature.
God created us to live full lives during which we constantly change and become more conscious individuals. Therefore, much of our time on Earth has to be spent learning the lessons we’re meant to learn.
4. If you give in to sappy emotions and feel sorry for yourself, your emotions dip down into the negative range where “fear” resides.
According to the work of Dr. David Hawkins of Power vs. Force: The Hidden Determinants of Human Behavior, there are only two basic emotions: Love and Fear. Love is a higher vibrating force than fear. If we live in love and acceptance, we will live healthier lives that have a better chance at complete healing. (Hint: We all know instinctively where fear resides.)
Shame comes in at the lowest level with a score of 20 logs (logarithmic progression). Guilt at 30 logs, anxiety at 50 logs, grief at 75 logs and fear (itself) at 100 logs. Once energy rises above “fear,” there is desire at 125 logs, anger at 150 logs, pride at 175 logs, courage at 200 logs, neutrality at 250 logs, willingness at 310 logs, acceptance at 350 logs, reason at 400 logs and love at 500 logs. Above that is joy at 540 logs, peace at 600 logs, enlightenment at 700 to 1,000 logs.
5. Having the courage to get close to “pain” automatically de-fuses its explosive, out-of-control quality.
You cannot sit side by side with something that terrifies you and not learn to live with it better. Fear breeds strong bio-chemicals that have the potential to increase pain.
A wise woman once told me to quit living in fear of my pain. She encouraged me to stop thinking of it as the enemy… to get close to it and “be” with it. She said I would feel better and she was right. By doing as she suggested, my pain lessened in intensity. Therefore, I got the upper hand.
To find out more about healing from devastating illness and making your pain go away, check out the ELT (Essential Life Therapy) protocol/ healing method and Cinda Crawford’s free report, “The Fatigue Factor: 5 Ways to Begin Your Own Healing From Fibromyalgia, Chronic Fatigue Syndrome, Allergies and Autoimmune Illness” at cindacrawford.com/fatiguefactor.html cindacrawford.com/fatiguefactor.html
After 15 years of pain and fatigue, Cinda Crawford is now healthy and working with many people as their ELT Health Practitioner. For over fifteen years, she’s counseled people on how to be healthy and how to heal from illness. Cinda Crawford facilitates personal energy healing on a mind/body/spirit basis with clients all over the world. Happy Health!
